Standing Free

Difficult

Accessories:  None

Other things that well help:  A great sense of balance!

This is a sex position that you occasionally see in the movies. It is more common to see the Standing Wall position.  Both lovemaking positions are ones that women dream about.

For some women, dancing is a simulation of sex. Here you have the best of both worlds! She feels weightless as he makes love to her and moves her around the room.

This position is hard to maintain for most mortal men. Recently winning a body building competition or playing professional level sports will give him an edge!

Start in a Sitting Close lovemaking position and move to the edge of the bed or sofa. With her legs wrapped around his hips, he supports her bottom and stands up. If he spreads his legs and gives her an area to push up on, as illustrated, it will help both of you.

Another good starting position is the Standing Spread Eagle.

FOR HIM

This can be tough on your back, so be careful.  If you have back problems, go to another lovemaking position; there are plenty more!

As you stand up, lean back a bit so that you do not topple forward and drop her as you go down - bad form!

Once you get into position, move her up and down. If you are in exceptional shape and she is light, this can be a really fun sex position.  Just do not underestimate what it takes and end up hurt and embarrassed on the floor.

FOR HER

This is one of the positions you dream about. You are floating on air, supported completely by your lover! You can hold him close as he does wonderful things!

Tip: Use your legs to help support yourself on his hips.

FOR BOTH

Remember that he will probably get tired after a few minutes. Bo heroics here. If you are going to try the position, know where you are going to land and when to stop and move to something a bit more relaxing.

Additional tip: Try the position in water first. If you have a secluded pool or lake, get into the position (with your swim suits on the first time!) with both of you in the water. The water will help provide support and buoyancy. Once there, see if he can support both of you as he gets out or stands up in the shallow end. See how long you can hold the position.

Although not totally romantic, you will be surprised how much fun this “practice” can be. Also (for the guys), if your arms are about to give out, you can just ease her back into the water and keep your pride! Just tell her she feels so good against you in the water…