10 Things Men Do Wrong in Bed

Article by Francine E. Hunt

Ladies, you need to keep in mind the fact that most guys are pretty single minded when it comes to having sex. They want to rip off your clothes and get right to the nasty. We on the other hand like to take things slow, be romanced and dazzled a little as we are a bit slower to warm up. We have compiled a list of the 10 things men do wrong in bed and if you find that your man is doing one, two or all ten of them, maybe you need to sit down and have a heart to heart.

1. Rushing to the Nitty Gritty

As we mentioned above, guys are not so much into foreplay unless of course it has to do with his pleasure. Get your man to slow things down a bit. Enjoy body exploration, kissing and intimate touching. Foreplay can be soooo much fun! If your guy is one of those that gets right down to business, show him all the ways that foreplay for both of you can make the sex act even better once you get down to it. Whether you use oral sex, discovering his erogenous zones or long petting sessions before you begin, it can sure be worth both your while to take your time. And don’t forget ladies, foreplay isn’t just for you; if you want him to get into it you have to be willing to do some fancy footwork of your own.

2. Ripping off Clothes is a No-No!

You might have spent a good chunk of your time choosing your sexiest underwear or lingerie in order to titillate your man. He is lying on the bed as you make your way towards him and what happens? He rips your clothes off like a madman! You probably spent plenty on that little teddy or silky, see through nightgown. Don’t let him ruin your hot look! Leave your sexy outfit on while you are engaging in foreplay. He may want to get right to the good stuff, but slow him down a bit. Guys get turned on by what they see, so playfully tell him, “Not yet!” when he tries to get you naked. Maybe walk around a bit in your sexy clothes and even add a pair of killer stilettos, and don’t allow him any touching. Maybe you can do some household chores such as cooking or doing the dishes in your sexy little number. He will get hot just watching you and you get the chance to feel you have the power to make him pant and drool. You want to get your money’s worth and so should he.

3. Watch Out, That Hurts!

Guys can be really dense when it comes to hurting a gal when they are sharing intimate moments. Lots of times they lean on long hair and that kills the mood almost immediately for the woman. If your hair is a problem, bring it to his attention that if he wants it long and loose while you’re making love he needs to be careful or else you are going to put it up in a ponytail so that it stays out of harm’s way. Leaning too heavily on other parts of your body hurts too. He has to realize he is a big, clumsy oaf and you are a fragile little flower. (Yeah right!)

4. Breasts are not Dough for Bread Making!

Lots of guys are under the assumption that breasts are to be kneaded for maximum pleasure! Wrong! They also can play rough with sensitive nipples. Let your man know that you would much rather he caressed your breasts, much like he would a bottle of beer or a football rather than have them knocked about painfully.

5. He Never Kisses You

Lots of guys forget that chicks have lips that beg to be kissed when they are making love. They act as if kissing takes away from the task at hand. If your guy forgets you have lips while you are making love, make the first move and kiss him first. More than likely he will kiss you back and if you keep it up, he may get the hint. If not, remind him your lips are not just for performing oral sex when you are being intimate, but for kissing passionately as well.

6. Wearing Socks During Sex

Nothing is worse than a guy that doesn’t take off his socks when you are making love unless of course he makes a habit of wearing socks with sandals. Guys just don’t seem to get the fact that they look pretty silly wearing them not to mention the fact that more than likely they emit horrible fumes that can bring tears to even the toughest woman’s eyes.

7. Trying to Sneak in the Back Door When You are Doing It Doggie Style

I think if you asked any woman about this deceptive practice they would all tell you their man has tried this maneuver at least once. Guys, there is nothing women hate more than you trying to slip it to them in the butt when you are making love. It is one of the biggest turn-offs there is! If you are doing it from behind, don’t try to slip it in like it will go unnoticed because it definitely is noticed and not in a good way!

8. Asking if She Came Yet

How many guys keep up a litany of, “Did you come yet?” during sex? How annoying! Nothing breaks the mood quicker than when he keeps asking if you have reached an orgasm. Tell him you’ll let him know so it’s not necessary that he keep checking back.

9. Answering His Cell Phone

Yeah, he is just so much in demand and a VIP that he has to answer every call or text that comes in on his cell phone while you are having an intimate moment. Let him know that not only does it break the mood, but it really pisses you off as well. Tell him you feel as if making love is an after thought on his part and it seems as if he is waiting for something more interesting to come up. Tell him not to put it on vibrate either. He should turn it off or you will turn off.

10. Watching TV While He is Making Love to You

Okay, your guy may be the biggest sports fan on the face of the earth, but watching the game while you are making love is a big no-no. Not only is it annoying but you are in the direct line of fire if something exciting, good or bad, should happen during the game. Tell him if he wants to watch the game then do it, if he wants to make love then shut the TV off and use TiVo to watch it later.

So there you have it ladies, ten things that men do wrong in bed. If you see your guy doing any or all of these things, maybe you need to think twice about your taste in men.